Don’t sweat the small stuff

The above title written by Richard Carlson somehow has influence my day to day. It’s a book that thought you how to keep from letting the little things in life that drive you crazy. This is especially for those who is in the midst of incredibly hurried, stress-filled life (am I included?).

We were guided how to enjoy the present moment, let others have glory at times and lower our tolerance to stress. We were told to write down our most stubborn positions and learn to “soften” them, to trust our intuitions and live each day as if it might be our last (like how the Muslims were taught).

My problem is, how do I categorize the “small stuff” ? Some guide for readers (esp female) out there on my definition of “small stuff”:-

a. When the Waja has a dented on it’s side?
It’s a small stuff
When the bimmer has a hairline scratch?
It’s NOT a small stuff

b. When the kids accidentally drop your Rolex ?
It’s a small stuff
When the kids accidentally drop his Panerai on the wooden panel?
It’s NOT a small stuff

c. When you found a woman sending sms to your other half?
It’s a small stuff
When the same woman send horny sms for the past 6 months?
It’s NOT a small stuff

d. When the boss is getting credit from the top management for your effort?
It’s a small stuff
When the same boss keeps getting credit for your sweat for the past 10 years?
It’s NOT a small stuff

e. When the boss is an hour late for a meeting without any valid reason?
It’s a small stuff
When you are 10 minutes late for a meeting due to car breakdown?
It’s NOT a small stuff

f. When a woman claimed that your other half is playing naughty sms with her?
It’s a small stuff
When the same woman responded to your naughty hubby sms and admitted their relationship??
It’s definitely NOT a small stuff, roll your sleeves ladies; we are going to get sweat!!!