Monday, November 23, 2015

Me English No Good


Scene 1
Cikgu   : Puan, puan kena cakap Bahasa Malaysia dengan anak puan.
Me       : Kenapa cikgu?
Cikgu   : Result BM dia sentiasa teruk. Mungkin kalau cakap BM dengan dia boleh bantu sikit.
Me       : Cikgu, saya memang cakap BM sebab English saya sendiri pun teruk. Betul, tak tipu.

Scene 2
A conversation after UPSR BM paper....
Me     : How was the test?
Me son : So so. By the way what is 'jururawat' ibu?
Me      : What was your guess? (Biar betul dia ni)

Scene 3
Haziq    :  Ibu, there's a MAJOR improvement for my BM result!
Me        : (hati berbunga-bunga) Owh ye ke? What did you get?
Haziq    : Last time was 'E', now I got a 'D'
Me       : (long paused dalam hati 'eh?')
Nazurah : Same here mummy, there's an improvement for mine as well
Me        : Nazurah dapat apa?
Nazurah : From 'D' to 'C'
Me        : alhamdulillah for both of your results (while scratching head)

Scene 4
Me Son : Ibu, do you use BM when you talk to yourself, or do you use English like me?
Me        : Boleh tanya benda lain tak?
(I swear I used to ask the same question to my English speaking friend back in secondary school)

Alhamdulillah. The kid's English is far better than mine, be it their grammar or vocabulary. I swear I speak Malay with them most of the time (Me no english slang fancy parents. Me england no good). No tipu. You can tell how terrible my english is just by reading this blog. And like my son said, I need to enrich my vocabulary.

My Bahasa Arab? Hancus.

We miss you terribly


Mama
I am the most horrible daughter in law that one can get
But I still respect you

Mama
I can never beat your cooking
But I do lit the stove every now and then

Mama
I can never forget when your result came out
We did not share with anyone
Your son's world turned upside down
And I can only offer him my support and my prayer

Mama
It was such an awkward moment when you request for me to bathe you
Little that I know that the next bath was when you where lying breathlessly

Mama
I remember that last look
The look in your eyes when I told you I had to go back to the office
You can no longer talk but you smiled and waived me goodbye
The last goodbye as I was the last family member to see you alive

Mama
I hope I leave you nothing except good memories
And I wouldn't want to remember anything except your kindness
Took me a while and I am only able to write these after more than 3 months of your passing
And we still talk about you, keep you in our prayers.. everyday without failed

I can no longer write ma...
it just hurts to acknowledge the fact that you have gone to a better place

Al-Fatihah buat mama
12 August 2015

Note to my mother


Mak, my apologies for expressing this. I never have the intention to break your heart.

Mak, You  wonder why don't I buy myself a brand new car…..
The 11 year old German stallion is still our pride despite of its age and condition... and the minivan that bapak is driving is still our happy ride.

Mak, you were asking why I wasn’t chauffeured driven like my friends..
Honestly mak, I would love too. Who doesn't kan ;p

Mak, you were asking why I do not buy designer handbags, wear expensive jewelery, branded clothing and all.
I don’t need them mak. I’m happy with my handbags though they are a little outdated. In fact I think I have too many of them already. They may not be Hermes and the fact that I do not have to pay for them indicates that I am blessed with love. Clothes? You know how kedekut-stingy I can be when buying my own attire (but not for the kids)

Mak, you were asking why I didn’t upgrade my house.
The truth is mak, the  house is already too quiet and feeling empty without you in it. I am sorry that the house can no longer accommodate your needs. I will arrange for a way so that the house is friendly enough for your wheel chair.

Mak, you were asking why can’t I live a life like the them..
Continuous upgrade of their cars, home, glamorous life, etc...
Even if I work harder I will not be able to reach there kot mak. BUT praise to Allah, our life is still much better than before….we can still afford to go for annual overseas trip and a nice makan2 kan?

Mak, I am sorry if I’m not able to meet your expectation.
I wish I could give you more.. like a business class seats for our every trip, a 5 star hotel for our holiday, chit chatting with you, take you for high tea every day, send you and bapak for umrah every year.

Mak, I have not once shed  tears in your presence since you got sick.
But I do weep in the car park, in surau or whenever there's no one around.

I pray that you will get well soon mak. Cepat sembuh and able to stand on your feet again mak.
It’s just killing me to see you like this. I just missed your Quran recitation after each prayer.
I promise I will not go emotional whenever you are dissatisfied with my little achievement.

I have always the one that troubled you so much. I may not display my compassion as the rest of the brothers but I do care. I may not be kind with my words at times and I do admit I am feeling a bit sad when you belittled my contribution..

May Allah answer all your prayers, shower you with His countless blessings, protect you always.
Love you mak.
Forever and always.
Forgive me for my wrongdoings and please do keep me in your prayer, like always.

Love always
Your only daughter

p/s: sorry I do not post our pic whenever we hanging out or holiday-ing, or express my words publicly like others.. Ini pun first attempt nih.I have failed miserably.

Wednesday, November 18, 2015

A conversation in the lift today

Woman   : Hi Boss
Big Boss : Hi, where are you going?
Woman  : Training
Boss      : Training apa? Training marah orang ka?
Woman  : Owh, itu training is best to learn from you.
Boss      : This girl never learn anything from me even after 5 years. (while pointing at me)
Me         : Who say I don’t? I do.
Woman : May be because she has a soft heart
Me        : NO, because I learn only the good thing from him.
Boss     : I thought I teach you all the good things?
Me        : Ya..BUT the bad way. I only consume good things, the good way.

(Utter silence)

*habislah bonus aku* there goes my bonus....



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Monday, November 16, 2015

Maki Maki


maki sushi is the only maki I am able to consume
other maki is truly unacceptable.

please save your maki and lets spread the positive vibes peeps!
I promise to always look for the good in bad times
like a saying, even a dead clock will strikes the correct time twice a day.

Translation Malay->English
maki            = to abuse
maki hamun = insults
maki sushi   =sushi cuisine

..and the going gets tough

I stumbled upon my last posting..that was merely 8 months back.
Allah has put me to a greater trial subsequently after the posting.
I broke down. Fell apart.

"..we have wronged our ownself.."

al araf (7:23)

~alhamdulillah~

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