Home mum..Working mum

Homemakers vs. Working Moms: Redefining Roles and Appreciating Each Other


The debate surrounding the roles of working moms and homemakers (or, as I prefer to call them, full-time housewives) has been ongoing. It is important to acknowledge that both play crucial roles within the family institution. While I don't deny that the tasks of a homemaker are demanding, exhausting, and often lacking in glamour or excitement, I stand corrected in recognizing that working moms face their own set of challenges too.

The office is no playground for many working moms. We struggle, work tirelessly, face criticism from bosses and clients, and also bear significant responsibility for our subordinates. We take care of their well-being, support their career paths, and even contribute to charitable causes.


Finding the time to perform solat promptly can be nearly impossible if one is not brave enough to excuse themselves and walk out secara sopan from unnecessary, stressful meetings. Nevertheless, I prioritize this as my utmost responsibility. Bathroom breaks are cut to the shortest possible duration, and lunch breaks are considered a luxury, especially when it comes to having an outing with friends. I left home upon sunrise and rarely leave the office before sunset. However, being greeted and embraced by my children after a long day is an immensely rewarding experience (thank you kodok2).


I wholeheartedly admire the women who have set high standards by excelling both in their careers and in managing household chores without any assistance from "bibik" or domestic helper.


Regardless of whether one is a working mom or a stay-at-home mom, it is still the same mother that the children look up to. Whether it's homework, school schedules, a sick child, PTA meetings, a lost pencil, or last-minute school projects, it is "mum" whom they turn to.


Let's refrain from arguing over which role is more challenging, instead, strive to be better moms for our children. Especially in understanding that it’s not an option for some in having to work.. commitment, responsibility has its price to pay. Let's focus on our children's well-being and not get caught up in trivial debates.


Whenever you feel worried, stressed, or hurt, turn to the Almighty with unwavering faith. Talk to Him. May Allah ease our burdens and alleviate our suffering.

There you have it.

Bismillah..

Sahaja aku pergi kerja untuk mencari rezeki kerana Allah swt.


P/s: I would honestly gave up my career.. joining my tai-tai cousins if I could afford too. But rest assured, Allah is the planner.

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